Memories, and Other Delights

At the risk of feeling as if one’s living in the past, it’s wonderful to stroll down memory lane every now and then. Thinking about where you’ve been in your relationship can help you look forward to where you and your partner would like to be.

Anticipating is not the same putting together a “business plan” for your love-life. It’s a way of imagining how fulfilling being together can, and hopefully, will be.

Try an experiment — think about three experiences you shared with your partner that were especially meaningful for you. Then picture how those experiences could built on in the future; no, not repeated, but used as a spring-board for something exciting and provocative to share.