So what if there isn't a platinum record in our future. We could warm up our vocal chords and make wonderful music together.

Suggestions: join a chorus; turn our favorite singers on CD and join in; go to a karaoke club; sing in the shower.

It would be fun and sexy to romanticize our bedroom. With a few simple changes, we can create our own boudoir.

Suggestions: dimmer switch; low wattage or colored bulbs; fresh flowers; scented candles; massage oil; a new bedspread; mirrors; favorite music; cleaning up the piles of "stuff"; a Do Not Disturb Sign.

Remember playing "dress up" when you were a kid? Well, we could play now. How about a romantic evening for just the two of us, with food drink, and even music that fits the mood.

Suggestions: shipwrecked pair on a deserted island; Romans, complete with togas, the "old west".

Let's take an organized tour of our own city! We'll discover places we've never heard of or been to.

Suggestions: City bus tour; walking tour; art tour; historical tour; local architecture tour; plant, factory or farm tour.

What a wonderful way for us to celebrate our lives together! We can deepen our love by renewing our vows. It would be fun to plan the time and place and write the ceremony.

Suggestions: your own private ceremony; invite family and friends; make it a casual event; plan a big celebration; combine it with a second honeymoon; pick an unusual place; mountain top, park, roller coaster.

Let's take our massage skills to the next level and improve our techniques. Think how much fun it'll be just practicing.

Suggestions: get a book or video on massage; practice together; schedule a massage for two from a professional masseuse, and then compare techniques.

We're worth it! Let's pull out all the stops and share a wonderful fantasy experience.

Suggestions: Book the bridal suite at a fancy hotel; a formal catered dinner at home; fly in special foods; fill the bedroom with flowers.

Let's pack a picnic basket with everything but food and drink, and keep it in the trunk of the car. Then on any afternoon when we can both steal some time, we'll be prepared to go somewhere romantically secluded.

Suggestions for the picnic basket: napkins; flatware; dishes; condiments; citronella candle; matches; thermos; portable radio/CD player; blanket.